I've heard, not sure who said it, I guess its on Seminar Munakahat, that if you want to know about someone, ask to the people who:
- has had work with him/her
- has lived with him/ her
- has traveled with him/ her
because by those time we most likely would get a clue about how that person truly is. the character shows up

Mom's travelling buddy are Miss S and Uncle G.. Daddy is just fine. Mom told me why dad isn't the travelling buddy and why uncle G just couldn't be our daddy

me? I just want you